"It's not a question of dislike. If Rin thinks you believe she should follow her own desires over the law of the Makai Priests, she will accept it as true. That can't happen, so -" he hesitated before repeating the assertion, "I have asked you not to return. My personal feelings don't matter." They certainly wouldn't matter to Rin when she found out that Jabi wasn't coming back. He would deal with that when the time came.